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Tasnim Jara - Bangladeshi Bride Stomps Traditions - No Make-ups, No Jewelry at Wedding
Tasnim Jara - Bangladeshi Bride Stomps Traditions - No Make-ups, No Jewelry at Wedding
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More power to her!
Wherever in the world it is that you get married, a wedding is usually all about the bride. It’s an occasion for her to look glamorous, beautiful – and this she often achieves through expert make-up, a gorgeous outfit and sparkling jewellery.
In many Asian countries – especially in the Indian subcontinent – ultra-lavish outfits and extravagant gold and jewellery on the bride are often considered to be markers of her family’s wealth and social status.
Many families don’t think twice about spending huge amounts of money – sometimes even taking loans – in order to have a fancy wedding for their daughter that they can ill-afford.
Recently though, one Bangladeshi woman – Tasnim Jara – challenged the stereotype that brides should be dripping with gold and plastered in makeup on their wedding day.
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https://sg.theasianparent.com/tasnim...ladeshi-bride/
1. Breaking stereotypes: Bangladeshi bride wears no makeup, jewellery on wedding day
The Express Tribune
https://tribune.com.pk/story/1481886...ake-jewellery/
2. Cotton Saree, No Jewellery. Bride Breaks Tradition, Explains Why...
NDTV.com
http://www.ndtv.com/offbeat/cotton-s...l-post-1737857
3. Bride Tasnim Jara Wore No Makeup To Her Wedding For An
APlus
http://aplus.com/a/bride-tasnim-jara...etization=true
4. Why This Bride Wearing No Makeup on Her Wedding Day Is...
Glamour
https://www.glamour.com/story/bride-...up-wedding-day
5. This Muslim Bride Didn't Wear Makeup to Her Wedding and Is Now...
Allure
https://www.allure.com/story/muslim-...makeup-wedding
6. Why Muslim Bride Wore Zero Makeup at Her Wedding
POPSUGAR
https://www.popsugar.com/beauty/Why-...dding-43863804
7. Bangladesh bride stirs social media storm after posting wedding photo...
Straits Times
http://www.straitstimes.com/asia/sou...al-media-storm
8.This Bangladeshi bride didn't wear any make-up or jewellery. Here's...
Hindustan Times
http://www.hindustantimes.com/more-l...Fdo7e7UoJ.html
9. Bride shunned by her family for not wearing makeup on her wedding day
Yahoo
https://www.yahoo.com/beauty/bride-s...155535244.html
10. Esta noiva muçulmana não usou maquiagem e nem joias em seu ...
Estadao
http://emais.estadao.com.br/noticias...to,70001933191
11. Bangladeshi bride stirs social media storm
The Malaysian Insight
http://www.themalaysianinsight.com/s/10518/
12. A woman has schooled society after she walked into her wedding...
msn.com
http://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/w...wK0?li=BBnbfcL
13. Bangladesh bride stirs social media storm
Free Malaysia Today
http://www.freemalaysiatoday.com/cat...l-media-storm/
14. Bangladeshi bride makes statement: Says no to makeup, jewelry...
Dunya News
http://dunyanews.tv/en/WeirdNews/401...ays-no-to-make
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August 17, 2017, 05:57 PM
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It takes immense courage to break stereotypes in our part of the world, especially if you are a woman, glad that she is getting the recognition she deserves, wish her a blissful marriage life.
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August 17, 2017, 06:11 PM
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... reminds me of Humayun Faridi and Shuborna Mustafa's wedding with Beli-fuler mala...
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August 17, 2017, 06:46 PM
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She looks beautiful. ...is that one of our beloved BC bhais getting hitched?
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August 17, 2017, 07:52 PM
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The groom looks like a Bangladeshi Tom Cruise.
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August 17, 2017, 08:16 PM
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lol why is this news? Not wearing makeup = courage now?
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August 17, 2017, 09:08 PM
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Next headline: Bangladeshi Bride asks Husband to cook, stomps traditions
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August 18, 2017, 05:03 AM
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lol why is this news? Not wearing makeup = courage now?
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August 18, 2017, 08:13 AM
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Haha good for her and even better for her husband's wallet. But how come so many international news outlet picked up the story? Especially considering, I haven't seen this news(lol) in local media. Oi bideshi journo gula dawat paisilo biyete mone hoy. 😁 Had this girl been a public figure, maybe it would have encouraged people to follow. All the brides in BD look the same because of the amount of make up put on them. But it's not like putting on make up on your wedding day is a crime of some sort.
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August 18, 2017, 08:53 AM
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What's she trying to prove here?
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August 18, 2017, 09:12 AM
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Good for her. But I don't wanna be next to someone who doesn't go the extra mile to look their best during special occasions.
You don't have to wear expensive jewelry or heavy makeup but you should try to look as best as possible.
I am sure a girl wouldn't like it if the guy decided to get married wearing a lungi.
One should aspire to conform to their own culture. There is nothing sexier than that in my opinion.
Regardless of race, I would love it if the girl who is marrying me wears our traditional wedding dress and not a shada gown. YUCK!
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August 18, 2017, 09:15 AM
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Next headline: Bangladeshi Bride asks Husband to cook, stomps traditions
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Going by many posts in this site... Husband cooking seems to be the norm. What do Bangladeshi girls/bride do these days? USELESS....
they don't wanna cook
they don't wanna work
they don't wanna have kids, if they do, they want someone else to take care of it
they don't wanna have sex
they don't wanna listen
They don't wanna clean or do laundry or do house work
All they wanna do is use facebook, have thousands of friends, go out with some of them (mostly guys) and spend YOUR money.
But if YOU as the guy use facebook, go out with friends (guy, forget about girls) - their crazy jealousy clingyness manifests itself....
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August 18, 2017, 09:23 AM
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this guy is gonna be hearing rest of his life how he never had to buy her anything for the wedding... and that she SAVED HIM thousands of dollars.... I don't wanna be this guy.
BUY HEr SHITT BRO.... if she wears it or not is her problem but DO YOUR PART....
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August 18, 2017, 10:38 AM
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purple tie and pocket square! Seriously brah!! That is more newsworthy to me.
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August 18, 2017, 02:15 PM
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Originally Posted by Habib
Haha good for her and even better for her husband's wallet. But how come so many international news outlet picked up the story? Especially considering, I haven't seen this news(lol) in local media. Oi bideshi journo gula dawat paisilo biyete mone hoy. 😁 Had this girl been a public figure, maybe it would have encouraged people to follow. All the brides in BD look the same because of the amount of make up put on them. But it's not like putting on make up on your wedding day is a crime of some sort.
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Welcome to the Millenial age. I'm surprised Buzzfeed hasn't picked up on this:
"21 reasons Tasnim Jara is all of us."
"40 reasons Tasnim Jara is bae"
"This Fearless Bride decided to not wear makeup, kicks chuvanisms a$$"
"10 women who defied patriarchy: #2 Malala Yusufzai, #1 Tasnim Jara"
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August 19, 2017, 03:20 AM
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I have a simple solution. Don`t get married.
There are other ways to satisfy your need, just take a look at iDumb`s sig.
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August 19, 2017, 10:15 PM
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This reminds me of the Pepsi Ad, with Kendall Jenner, minus the controversy.
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August 24, 2017, 11:02 AM
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Trump wouldn't like this.
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August 24, 2017, 11:20 AM
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Not one bit.
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August 24, 2017, 11:22 AM
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What were brides wearing before there were any makeup?
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August 24, 2017, 11:48 AM
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Orphy, mostly so true! You sometime hit ugly truth with seemingly non-serious way - amazing!
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Going by many posts in this site... Husband cooking seems to be the norm. What do Bangladeshi girls/bride do these days? USELESS....
they don't wanna cook
they don't wanna work
they don't wanna have kids, if they do, they want someone else to take care of it
they don't wanna have sex
they don't wanna listen
They don't wanna clean or do laundry or do house work
All they wanna do is use facebook, have thousands of friends, go out with some of them (mostly guys) and spend YOUR money.
But if YOU as the guy use facebook, go out with friends (guy, forget about girls) - their crazy jealousy clingyness manifests itself....
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August 24, 2017, 11:50 AM
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^^Not to mention, their (not wives, but girls generally) Facebook photos look completely different from them in front of me live.
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August 24, 2017, 11:57 AM
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We as a society had to come to this where the norm shouldn't have been the headline... lol sigh
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August 25, 2017, 02:02 PM
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Quote:
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Orphy, mostly so true! You sometime hit ugly truth with seemingly non-serious way - amazing!
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I am an observational commenter ... and often time write from experience of me and others around me ....
I really think Bangladeshi girls today are one of the worse spouses/gf ... there has been a major shift in the psyche that is dangerous and too far extreme at another side..
The last golden era of Bengali girl were in my opinion was our mother generation ...those 50 up ... to some extent 40 plus somewhat holds those values ..... the shift occurred in 20 plus psyche..my bat dying will finish later
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I cannot compute this function called 'relationship' for some reason.
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