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'Eve Teasing'??
Someone fill me in on this stuff
Bangladesh 'Eve teasing' craze takes a terrible toll
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This Sunday (13 June) has been designated "Eve Teasing Protection Day" by the education ministry in Bangladesh.
The announcement reflects increasing concern over the worrying number of girls and women who have recently committed suicide in the country to escape "Eve teasing", a euphemism for sexual harassment
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http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/sou...a/10220920.stm
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June 12, 2010, 03:39 PM
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June 12, 2010, 04:05 PM
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Huh, I tease girls quite a lot, and girls usually like it. What so different in this situation.
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June 12, 2010, 04:15 PM
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Originally Posted by Nafi
Huh, I tease girls quite a lot, and girls usually like it. What so different in this situation.
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One difference I can tell assuming your location is correct, the transcendental ideology towards cosmical revelation, the conservative upbringing and restrictive cultural cognizance which leads to assuming the pride and honor of the closest relatives comparatively invaluable to her own existence, may not be visual in the society you live in.
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June 12, 2010, 04:44 PM
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Originally Posted by One World
One difference I can tell assuming your location is correct, the transcendental ideology towards cosmical revelation, the conservative upbringing and restrictive cultural cognizance which leads to assuming the pride and honor of the closest relatives comparatively invaluable to her own existence, may not be visual in the society you live in.
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Oh right. Yeh its still a factor, but girls in the UK know how to keep secrets
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December 5, 2010, 08:52 AM
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Huh, I tease girls quite a lot, and girls usually like it. What so different in this situation.
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meyeder ke dekhe hasle or matha narle n meyera sara dile oita holo flirting, tarpor meyera ghurte razi hole oita holo dating r kono kichui na hole oita holo eve teasing !!!
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December 5, 2010, 10:21 AM
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Originally Posted by Naimul_Hd
meyeder ke dekhe hasle or matha narle n meyera sara dile oita holo flirting, tarpor meyera ghurte razi hole oita holo dating r kono kichui na hole oita holo eve teasing !!!
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kono kichu na hole na,jodi birokto hoy ba embarassed feel kore then it's eve teasing,
eve teasing eto shosta na,it has a very bad impact in our society,don't try to make it sound light with humour.
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June 12, 2010, 03:57 PM
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These are just bland euphemism that masks blatant sexual harassment and stalking. The Daily Star rightly so has started to use the term "stalker" and not "eve teaser".
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June 12, 2010, 03:58 PM
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Eve teasing also includes physical sexual harassment. It is mentioned as a MINI RAPE. A lot of suicide committed for eveteasing. The offender doesn't have to suffer punishment as there are no express law has been provided in Bangladesh. The high court already ordered govt to enact law against it
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June 13, 2010, 06:49 AM
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Not to sound insensitive about the issue....but what about the male equivalent of Adam teasing....I can hardly walk in chondrima uddyan without getting stopped by some females for 'favors'.
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June 13, 2010, 07:08 AM
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Originally Posted by ZeeshanM
Not to sound insensitive about the issue....but what about the male equivalent of Adam teasing....I can hardly walk in chondrima uddyan without getting stopped by some females for 'favors'.
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Given your Casanova history...or lack of, thereof... you should take it.
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Unspeakable! Horrible! This is a clear reflection of our moral decay, social decay over the past 2 dacades. Very sad and think what a savage of a society we are constantly nurturing, building and raising. Humanity, you make me vomit! We are a group that live like zombies. We have no-zero conscience, no accountability, no compassion, no empathy, nothing, zero! We are not truly independant, we are always wearing a heavy chain and we are always the prisoners, unable to ever have any control over our own selves. This is not the way to enlightenment.
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December 5, 2010, 10:59 AM
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dont blame the boys only...look at the clothes that r girls wearing these days..IMHO
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Originally Posted by Night_wolf
dont blame the boys only...look at the clothes that r girls wearing these days..IMHO
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this is 2010 bro not 1942 . They have every rights in the world to wear whatever they feel like wearing.
I think this trend is due to lack of education, lack of job opportunites, no fear of God and most importantly lack of girlfriends. . Whatever the case it maybe, its just disgusting and sick...
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December 5, 2010, 11:30 AM
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^^^oh COME ON!!!!!just because a girl wears what her heart pleases doesn't mean that it gives guys the right to pass ugly comments!that was no way to jusify eve teasing!
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Originally Posted by roman
this is 2010 bro not 1942 . They have every rights in the world to wear whatever they feel like wearing.
I think this trend is due to lack of education, lack of job opportunites, no fear of God and most importantly lack of girlfriends. . Whatever the case it maybe, its just disgusting and sick...
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i am not justifying eve teasing..its just now a days girls were so much revealing clothes that can some times go against them..thats just my opinion..if u r wearing Sh!t u should be expected to hear Sh!t...forgive me i am talking like a mollah but thats how i feel
roman vai did our religion gave them the right to wear whatever they like?..
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roman vai did our religion gave them the right to wear whatever they like?..
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Well our religion didnt give us men the right to look at them that way in the first place. The true veil lies in the man's eyes and mind.
Anyway, what you're saying can never justify violence, stalking or even insulting people just because what they wear gives someone a hard on. Eve-teasing or stalking are sugar coated words for "sexual harassment".
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Well our religion didnt give us men the right to look at them that way in the first place. The true veil lies in the man's eyes and mind.
Anyway, what you're saying can never justify violence, stalking or even insulting people just because what they wear gives someone a hard on. Eve-teasing or stalking are sugar coated words for "sexual harassment".
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yes i am not denying that on not i am protecting the boys here...they are 100% guilty and should be punished..but i am only saying that there are other side of the stories too...dont only blame the boys...banglay akta probad ase "ak hate tali bajena"
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December 5, 2010, 12:36 PM
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i am not justifying eve teasing..its just now a days girls were so much revealing clothes that can some times go against them..thats just my opinion..if u r wearing Sh!t u should be expected to hear Sh!t...forgive me i am talking like a mollah but thats how i feel
roman vai did our religion gave them the right to wear whatever they like?..
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the girls u r referring to are not the main victims.
I think more than 90% of the victims r from lower or middle class families who don't wear so called revealing clothes.
And as Lamisa said doesn't matter what they were these boys have no rights.
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dont blame the boys only...look at the clothes that r girls wearing these days..IMHO
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If you are talking about mini skirts (short enough to see underwear), and low cut tops where you can see most of the bosom, then you have a point.
But the fact that his is practically non-existent in Bangladesh, makes your point silly/radical.
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December 5, 2010, 11:17 AM
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^^^oh COME ON!!!!!just because a girl wears what her heart pleases doesn't mean that it gives guys the right to pass ugly comments!that was no way to jusify eve teasing!
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